It was last Monday when, into our life a little rain fell.
Well, it was actually from the city supply but the effect is the same :)
We would like to thank everyone for the outpouring of concern and compassion towards our family. The comments on the blog, the emails and the phone calls have been very encouraging.
Furthermore, I have to give glory to God for his provision through all of this. I'm not one to shout, "Hallelujah" when a sweet parking spot opens up but I will give credit where credit is due.
"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?
...So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6: 25-34
While we're parked in our driveway, if we leave the car running it stays plenty warm while we're sleeping. The neighbors have been kind enough to lone us the use of their hose, so we're staying clean. The barbeque still works. Really, we're doing just fine :)
ok - that part was a lie.
In reality, we've actually moved up in the world.
We're in a nice hotel with two bedrooms, two bathrooms, a kitchen, a gas fireplace, maid service, an indoor pool, full breakfast every morning, high-speed wireless and three flat screen TV's. They even let us keep the cats. Ordinarily that bit about the cats wouldn't fall under, "blessing."
Here's a little update on the house.
Water got everywhere, They packed up our house and put it all in a warehouse. They tore out all the flooring. They found possibly asbestos tile underneath and are having it tested before removal. They found mold. They tore out most of the kitchen ceiling. They tore out a number of walls. They tore out our kitchen cabinets. And they were removing the toilets and vanities when I left today.
Hi, I'm Will. I'll be destroying your house today.
The dishwasher is all that remains of the kitchen cabinets.
This is the ceiling outside the backdoor - near ground zero.
Apparently insulation was quite expensive at the time so we found supplemental blankets, pants, shirts and numerous newspapers from '63 and '68.
1968
1963
1963
What used to be a much more welcoming living room.
Our new open floor plan.
Stay tuned, we're not done yet!
Monday, January 28, 2008
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Just add water!
Well this post isn't exactly photography related but, stay tuned and I think you'll see it plays a significant role in my business.
Jolene and I have been having some home ownership adventures since coming back from Christmas vacation. For those of you who have read my profile, you'll know that I like old houses - I'm beginning to reconsider.
Here's the rundown:
- Two days before we left Utah to fly back, our heating oil run's out at home. We have our friends who are watching our house put out space heaters for the cats. Called and had the oil tank filled for $1000! But I'll need to bleed the lines when I get home.
- We fly home late at night - it's 14 degrees. I forgo trying to fix the furnace in the dark and the four of us join our two cats in our king size bed for a night of snuggling to the hum of a space heater.
- The next day as I'm messing with the furnace which won't start, Jolene comes to tell me there's water leaking through our kitchen ceiling. A busted line and two inch hole in the celing. I turn the water off. We pack up and leave our still heatless and now waterless home. We stay with aforementioned friends for a few days.
- We get the water fixed and I go back to figuring out our furnace.
- The oil line is clogged but is soon remedied with some non-EPA approved methods involving a coat hanger and a frisbee.
- There is no filter on the line. One crash course at Lowe's involving copper tubing and flare fittings and I've soon got a shiny new filter installed.
- Gryphyn is sick and throwing up.
- Still no heat. The oil pump is bad. An iPhone search gets me to a heating and A/C parts supplier and I soon have a new oil pump installed. And - WE HAVE HEAT!
- Gryphyn is kind enough to share his ailment with me.
- Four days of (relative) peace
- We're watching a movie and something smells weird. I go out to the furnace and the whole room is filled with smoke and the outside of the furnace is burning hot.
- Shut off the power and oil to the furnace and break out the space heaters.
- Gryphyn is sick and throwing up again.
- Call the furnace professionals this time. They will have someone out on Monday - of course it's the weekend.
- 12 year old clothes dryer stops working while tending to the items Gryphyn blessed with his illness.
- Buy new washer and dryer at Home Depot - they'll be delivered Wednesday.
- Monday morning we take Gryphyn and Vahn to their music class and to lunch.
- We come home to see a shower of water from the ceiling above our back door. I shut off the water (again)
That's my back door (I came in through the front :)
Every laptop dies - not every laptop really lives.
A tough situation even for a Mac.
The water busted in the back of the house by the jackets hanging in the distance. It traveled under all the carpets and came out the front of the house along the foundation. It also took a tour of the bedrooms and master bath.
- Between calls to the insurance and water mitigation companies, family, some friends and a hotel - Gryphyn decides to spike a fever again and we got him to the doctor to find he has a bi-lateral ear infection. His first.
- While we're at the doctors office the furnace repair guy calls. He'll be at the house in a few minutes. Thanks anyway.
- We lock the cats in the bedroom with a space heater and head to Holiday Inn.
- Tuesday the water mitigation company tears out most of the rest of my kitchen ceiling and tells me they need to do the same to a few walls. Tomorrow they'll be removing my furniture along with all the carpets.
- The insurance company wants to know why I'm staying in a hotel.
- My iMac is casting a glow on the three people sleeping behind me in our hotel room as I write this. It's a little after midnight.
- My new washer and dryer will be here today. awesome.
Jolene and I have been having some home ownership adventures since coming back from Christmas vacation. For those of you who have read my profile, you'll know that I like old houses - I'm beginning to reconsider.
Here's the rundown:
- Two days before we left Utah to fly back, our heating oil run's out at home. We have our friends who are watching our house put out space heaters for the cats. Called and had the oil tank filled for $1000! But I'll need to bleed the lines when I get home.
- We fly home late at night - it's 14 degrees. I forgo trying to fix the furnace in the dark and the four of us join our two cats in our king size bed for a night of snuggling to the hum of a space heater.
- The next day as I'm messing with the furnace which won't start, Jolene comes to tell me there's water leaking through our kitchen ceiling. A busted line and two inch hole in the celing. I turn the water off. We pack up and leave our still heatless and now waterless home. We stay with aforementioned friends for a few days.
- We get the water fixed and I go back to figuring out our furnace.
- The oil line is clogged but is soon remedied with some non-EPA approved methods involving a coat hanger and a frisbee.
- There is no filter on the line. One crash course at Lowe's involving copper tubing and flare fittings and I've soon got a shiny new filter installed.
- Gryphyn is sick and throwing up.
- Still no heat. The oil pump is bad. An iPhone search gets me to a heating and A/C parts supplier and I soon have a new oil pump installed. And - WE HAVE HEAT!
- Gryphyn is kind enough to share his ailment with me.
- Four days of (relative) peace
- We're watching a movie and something smells weird. I go out to the furnace and the whole room is filled with smoke and the outside of the furnace is burning hot.
- Shut off the power and oil to the furnace and break out the space heaters.
- Gryphyn is sick and throwing up again.
- Call the furnace professionals this time. They will have someone out on Monday - of course it's the weekend.
- 12 year old clothes dryer stops working while tending to the items Gryphyn blessed with his illness.
- Buy new washer and dryer at Home Depot - they'll be delivered Wednesday.
- Monday morning we take Gryphyn and Vahn to their music class and to lunch.
- We come home to see a shower of water from the ceiling above our back door. I shut off the water (again)
That's my back door (I came in through the front :)
Every laptop dies - not every laptop really lives.
A tough situation even for a Mac.
The water busted in the back of the house by the jackets hanging in the distance. It traveled under all the carpets and came out the front of the house along the foundation. It also took a tour of the bedrooms and master bath.
- Between calls to the insurance and water mitigation companies, family, some friends and a hotel - Gryphyn decides to spike a fever again and we got him to the doctor to find he has a bi-lateral ear infection. His first.
- While we're at the doctors office the furnace repair guy calls. He'll be at the house in a few minutes. Thanks anyway.
- We lock the cats in the bedroom with a space heater and head to Holiday Inn.
- Tuesday the water mitigation company tears out most of the rest of my kitchen ceiling and tells me they need to do the same to a few walls. Tomorrow they'll be removing my furniture along with all the carpets.
- The insurance company wants to know why I'm staying in a hotel.
- My iMac is casting a glow on the three people sleeping behind me in our hotel room as I write this. It's a little after midnight.
- My new washer and dryer will be here today. awesome.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
It's a Pictage Party!
Last night was our monthly Pictage User Group (PUG) meeting. A chance for photographers to get away from their computers and hang out with some like-minded shooters.
We had a fun time and had a great turn out thanks in no small part to Justin and Mary Marantz. They came down from Connecticut to share their business style with us and they were awesome - definitely rockstars! Justin and Mary have got a great wedding photography business and they themselves were just married last year and were fortunate enough to have David Jay and Becker shoot their wedding! How cool is that!!
After the meeting it was off to dinner at the Stone Ridge Tavern and then a few of us braved the snow and headed to Corey McNabb's studio to chill.
Clockwise from 12 o'clock is Corey McNabb, Sarah Henry, Honour Hiers, Justin Marantz, Regina Holder, zac|thomas and Mary Marantz.
Corey's wife Jill's was kind enough to shake us up some of her awesome chocolate martini's.
Goodtimes.
We had a fun time and had a great turn out thanks in no small part to Justin and Mary Marantz. They came down from Connecticut to share their business style with us and they were awesome - definitely rockstars! Justin and Mary have got a great wedding photography business and they themselves were just married last year and were fortunate enough to have David Jay and Becker shoot their wedding! How cool is that!!
After the meeting it was off to dinner at the Stone Ridge Tavern and then a few of us braved the snow and headed to Corey McNabb's studio to chill.
Clockwise from 12 o'clock is Corey McNabb, Sarah Henry, Honour Hiers, Justin Marantz, Regina Holder, zac|thomas and Mary Marantz.
Corey's wife Jill's was kind enough to shake us up some of her awesome chocolate martini's.
Goodtimes.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Today's the day!
I've finally got my webpage put together and online! Whoo-hoo!
As you can tell I've given the blog a facelift as well. And to top it off I've got some sweet new semi-transparent, plastic business cards!
My aim has been a very streamlined and clean look. You'd be surprised how complicated that can get behind the scenes.
Hopefully my efforts are not in vain and the new look will be a big hit. We'll see!
Let me know what you think!
As you can tell I've given the blog a facelift as well. And to top it off I've got some sweet new semi-transparent, plastic business cards!
My aim has been a very streamlined and clean look. You'd be surprised how complicated that can get behind the scenes.
Hopefully my efforts are not in vain and the new look will be a big hit. We'll see!
Let me know what you think!
Sunday, January 13, 2008
My most longest post
I had a friend send me an email the other day asking some photography questions so I figured I would answer here on the blog and hopefully a few others of you can benefit from it as well.
FAIR WARNING: I can get technical and geeky, this could get boring pretty quick. Like I said in my last post though - the more you know about the technical aspects of photography the better equipped you are to use them creatively whenever you want. So here we go.
The first question: I am trying to understand the difference between telephoto macro and a plain macro lens. I feel like I need a different lens than my plain one that is a 18-55mm.
Alright, that's actually a statement but there's a question in there :)
All the numbers I'll put out here are for 35mm cameras - the type of camera your dad wore around his neck. Digital has changed everything and this post would be a book before I could explain it all. But if you know the 35mm numbers you're good-to-go (it's the standard) because all the new equipment out there has the 35mm equivalents listed as well.
Before we get to the macro part let's deal with what a telephoto lens is. We've all heard of telephoto lenses and wide angle lenses. With those two extremes there has to be something "normal" in the middle. But what's normal? What you can see with your eyes is normal. And that's 50mm (millimeters) in lens terms. If you took a camera with a 50mm lens on it and looked at your computer screen like you are now it would look the same, not any closer - not any further away. With that 50mm anchor point - any number less then 50 is a wide angle lens and anything greater is a telephoto. Still with me? Probably not but I'll keep writing anyway. I warned you this would be lame!
Macro. This is a term for a lens that means it can focus very close to it's subject. It's universally marked by a flower icon. That's because 99% of people shooting macro are shooting flowers (or when the camera is right out of the box they're shooting spare change or their keyboard and getting all excited while their wife rolls her eyes). So if you've got a 100mm macro lens it's a telephoto macro and a 28mm lens is a wide-angle macro. Most lenses these days are zooms so you've probably got both regardless. If you took both the lenses and focused on the "H" in the middle of your keyboard the 100mm lens may get just the "H" to fill the whole frame whereas the 28mm lens, at the exact same distance, might get from the D to the L and the 7 to the space bar. In the film days macro meant you could focus somewhere less than a foot away. Many everyday digital point-n-shoot cameras can now focus down to less than an inch. If you need to focus closer than that - go get a PHD and a microscope.
My friend has a camera that she can change lenses on - a Digital Single Lens Reflex camera - DSLR. You don't care what that stands for - let's keep going. She also has an 18-55mm lens. These are digital numbers like I mentioned. For her DSLR she needs to multiply by 1.5 to get the 35mm equivalent. For the moment, you don't care about that either. So she really has a 27-82.5mm lens. Fairly wide at 27mm to a moderate telephoto at 82mm. If you've got a camera that you can change lenses on, the best thing you can do for your pictures is to get a better lens. I will say without reservation that she should buy a Canon 50mm f1.8 prime lens.
I shoot with the Nikon equivalent of this lens and it may be my favorite lens. The Canon is on Amazon for $70 - new! My second favorite lens sells for $1700 - my Nikkor 70-200mm f2.8.
This 50mm lens doesn't do it all, it doesn't even zoom. It's awesome though for portraits and shooting without a flash. I shoot without a flash whenever possible. Two posts down are pictures of Gryphyn and Vahn. I know for sure the last three shot were with my 50mm lens. I was in my parents dining room on New Years day, I put down a black sheet and opened the curtains behind me and that was it. Start shooting.
When it comes to lenses - your aperture will set you free. The lower the better, meaning the smaller the number. 1.8 is much better than 3.5 Your lens is probably a 3.5-5.6 variable aperture. I've got one sitting on my desk in front of me waiting to go on eBay.
Your aperture is in your lens. It's just a hole than changes it's size like the iris in your eye. The bigger the hole the smaller the number - your "f-stop". It's a multiplier based on how big the aperture is to how long the lens is. Kinda screwy to get used to but, no big deal.
She asks what lens I use the most. Well, it's not my 50mm though I could use it more than I do. I probably use my 17-50 2.8 lens the most. It's my workhorse mainly because it's a fast zoom lens. Fast meaning a low aperture - bigger hole - more expensive. About $400 for my off-brand lens.
Man this is long. I could start typing the ingredients for Fruity Pebbles and no one's ever gonna know.
Oh well, for that one geek still hanging on...
She wants to make her pictures "glow" instead of the plain flat look she's getting. Well, if you don't own Photoshop, a screw-on "soft-focus" filter would probably be the cheapest route. The 50mm lens can work too. The shot of Gryphyn in front of the Christmas tree was with a 1.4 lens. The reason your subject pops with a fast lens is because the depth-of-field is so shallow (that's how much in front and behind the subject is in focus) You see in the picture that he's in focus but the tree is slightly out of focus and it takes on a bit of a glow because of it. In the picture directly below that you see the eye on the left is in focus but the other eye is slightly out. The same thing for most of the one's below that. The effect is enhanced that closer you are to your subject. In the Christmas tree shot I'm across the room and the tree is slightly out of focus. In the picture below it, I'm right up in Gryphyn's face and the depth-of-field is much more noticeable. You really have to pay attention to focus on the eye's with this type of lens, if the camera focuses on the end of the nose the eyes will be slightly out.
Last question: when you're taking Gryphyn's picture, does he always look at you and act "right"?
No. Usually never. But that's the case with most kids.
I make sure there's plenty of light - this keeps your shutter speed quick enough where they aren't blurry from moving. Having the 1.8 lens will help tremendously with this - it lets in much more light. Then I shoot fast and shoot often. The last picture of Gryphyn in the post is the only keeper I came away with after about 10 minutes where he wanted to chase the dog, bury his head in his blanket, play with the blinds, bite my nose, bite mom's nose and pull me down and bounce on my chest. He used to be much easier, I think I burned him out. Imagine that :)
Vahn loves the camera though. He comes alive for it. I've taken it out and started shooting him when he was throwing a fit and he started smiling and laughing for me while he still had tears rolling down his face.
My head hurts. I haven't thought about this stuff for a while, it's just sort of ingrained when you live and breath it everyday. Trying to put it in simpler terms and figuring what to mention and what to leave out is kind of challenging. It's all relatively important but different things come into play based on your individual skill level.
If anyone is still reading this and actually found it helpful - leave me a comment. This took me a few hours to put together, I'd just like to get an idea if anyone's benefiting from it.
I promise to put some pictures up with the next post so it's not so lame.
FAIR WARNING: I can get technical and geeky, this could get boring pretty quick. Like I said in my last post though - the more you know about the technical aspects of photography the better equipped you are to use them creatively whenever you want. So here we go.
The first question: I am trying to understand the difference between telephoto macro and a plain macro lens. I feel like I need a different lens than my plain one that is a 18-55mm.
Alright, that's actually a statement but there's a question in there :)
All the numbers I'll put out here are for 35mm cameras - the type of camera your dad wore around his neck. Digital has changed everything and this post would be a book before I could explain it all. But if you know the 35mm numbers you're good-to-go (it's the standard) because all the new equipment out there has the 35mm equivalents listed as well.
Before we get to the macro part let's deal with what a telephoto lens is. We've all heard of telephoto lenses and wide angle lenses. With those two extremes there has to be something "normal" in the middle. But what's normal? What you can see with your eyes is normal. And that's 50mm (millimeters) in lens terms. If you took a camera with a 50mm lens on it and looked at your computer screen like you are now it would look the same, not any closer - not any further away. With that 50mm anchor point - any number less then 50 is a wide angle lens and anything greater is a telephoto. Still with me? Probably not but I'll keep writing anyway. I warned you this would be lame!
Macro. This is a term for a lens that means it can focus very close to it's subject. It's universally marked by a flower icon. That's because 99% of people shooting macro are shooting flowers (or when the camera is right out of the box they're shooting spare change or their keyboard and getting all excited while their wife rolls her eyes). So if you've got a 100mm macro lens it's a telephoto macro and a 28mm lens is a wide-angle macro. Most lenses these days are zooms so you've probably got both regardless. If you took both the lenses and focused on the "H" in the middle of your keyboard the 100mm lens may get just the "H" to fill the whole frame whereas the 28mm lens, at the exact same distance, might get from the D to the L and the 7 to the space bar. In the film days macro meant you could focus somewhere less than a foot away. Many everyday digital point-n-shoot cameras can now focus down to less than an inch. If you need to focus closer than that - go get a PHD and a microscope.
My friend has a camera that she can change lenses on - a Digital Single Lens Reflex camera - DSLR. You don't care what that stands for - let's keep going. She also has an 18-55mm lens. These are digital numbers like I mentioned. For her DSLR she needs to multiply by 1.5 to get the 35mm equivalent. For the moment, you don't care about that either. So she really has a 27-82.5mm lens. Fairly wide at 27mm to a moderate telephoto at 82mm. If you've got a camera that you can change lenses on, the best thing you can do for your pictures is to get a better lens. I will say without reservation that she should buy a Canon 50mm f1.8 prime lens.
I shoot with the Nikon equivalent of this lens and it may be my favorite lens. The Canon is on Amazon for $70 - new! My second favorite lens sells for $1700 - my Nikkor 70-200mm f2.8.
This 50mm lens doesn't do it all, it doesn't even zoom. It's awesome though for portraits and shooting without a flash. I shoot without a flash whenever possible. Two posts down are pictures of Gryphyn and Vahn. I know for sure the last three shot were with my 50mm lens. I was in my parents dining room on New Years day, I put down a black sheet and opened the curtains behind me and that was it. Start shooting.
When it comes to lenses - your aperture will set you free. The lower the better, meaning the smaller the number. 1.8 is much better than 3.5 Your lens is probably a 3.5-5.6 variable aperture. I've got one sitting on my desk in front of me waiting to go on eBay.
Your aperture is in your lens. It's just a hole than changes it's size like the iris in your eye. The bigger the hole the smaller the number - your "f-stop". It's a multiplier based on how big the aperture is to how long the lens is. Kinda screwy to get used to but, no big deal.
She asks what lens I use the most. Well, it's not my 50mm though I could use it more than I do. I probably use my 17-50 2.8 lens the most. It's my workhorse mainly because it's a fast zoom lens. Fast meaning a low aperture - bigger hole - more expensive. About $400 for my off-brand lens.
Man this is long. I could start typing the ingredients for Fruity Pebbles and no one's ever gonna know.
Oh well, for that one geek still hanging on...
She wants to make her pictures "glow" instead of the plain flat look she's getting. Well, if you don't own Photoshop, a screw-on "soft-focus" filter would probably be the cheapest route. The 50mm lens can work too. The shot of Gryphyn in front of the Christmas tree was with a 1.4 lens. The reason your subject pops with a fast lens is because the depth-of-field is so shallow (that's how much in front and behind the subject is in focus) You see in the picture that he's in focus but the tree is slightly out of focus and it takes on a bit of a glow because of it. In the picture directly below that you see the eye on the left is in focus but the other eye is slightly out. The same thing for most of the one's below that. The effect is enhanced that closer you are to your subject. In the Christmas tree shot I'm across the room and the tree is slightly out of focus. In the picture below it, I'm right up in Gryphyn's face and the depth-of-field is much more noticeable. You really have to pay attention to focus on the eye's with this type of lens, if the camera focuses on the end of the nose the eyes will be slightly out.
Last question: when you're taking Gryphyn's picture, does he always look at you and act "right"?
No. Usually never. But that's the case with most kids.
I make sure there's plenty of light - this keeps your shutter speed quick enough where they aren't blurry from moving. Having the 1.8 lens will help tremendously with this - it lets in much more light. Then I shoot fast and shoot often. The last picture of Gryphyn in the post is the only keeper I came away with after about 10 minutes where he wanted to chase the dog, bury his head in his blanket, play with the blinds, bite my nose, bite mom's nose and pull me down and bounce on my chest. He used to be much easier, I think I burned him out. Imagine that :)
Vahn loves the camera though. He comes alive for it. I've taken it out and started shooting him when he was throwing a fit and he started smiling and laughing for me while he still had tears rolling down his face.
My head hurts. I haven't thought about this stuff for a while, it's just sort of ingrained when you live and breath it everyday. Trying to put it in simpler terms and figuring what to mention and what to leave out is kind of challenging. It's all relatively important but different things come into play based on your individual skill level.
If anyone is still reading this and actually found it helpful - leave me a comment. This took me a few hours to put together, I'd just like to get an idea if anyone's benefiting from it.
I promise to put some pictures up with the next post so it's not so lame.
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
I'm a little sad
Herbert Keppler died the other day.
I'm going to bet 99% or more of you don't know who he was. You can read a little bio on him here.
I outgrew Popular Photography magazine a number of years ago but, for many years I subscribed to it and read it all the way through. Mr. Keppler had regular articles in every issue. He was very good at the technical side of photography and his articles (because of the subject) could be somewhat boring. I read them anyway and I can't quantify how much I learned through him. And it made a huge difference in my photography. One of the best things I ever did to become a better photographer was to read and read. The more I learned the technical the more it would translate into better pictures. Once you know what all the buttons and switches do you're not afraid of them and you start to use them.
Mr. Keppler was from a different era and I often didn't agree with the type of equipment he liked to use or the style of photography he displayed but that is all opinion. The fact is that he knew what he was doing and it changed the world of photography and specifically my world. I remember him for that.
Monday, January 7, 2008
Dust off the tripod!
If you're in the need for some commercial property for your start-up business, I've got a friend who's got 100,000 square feet of space. You should have plenty of room to expand as your business grows.
Larry Pulliam asked me to come out and shoot the Steelcase factory in Fletcher. The factory actually has more than the 100,000 sqft that's available; the roof covers 26 acres! You think your utility bills are crazy?!
Larry Pulliam asked me to come out and shoot the Steelcase factory in Fletcher. The factory actually has more than the 100,000 sqft that's available; the roof covers 26 acres! You think your utility bills are crazy?!
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
Are you blessed or a blessing?
Kids give you perspective.
Here's a few thoughts I had as I was looking at Gryphyn and Vahn's pictures.
Your kids see you now.
They didn't see you grow up. They will see you as they grow up.
They didn't see you as a nerd or a jock. They will see if you treat them as a nerd or a jock.
They didn't see you go to school. They will come to you as they go through school.
They didn't see you romance their mom. They will look to you to learn romance.
They didn't see how your dad loved you. They will see how you love them.
Your kids will never know the dad you want to be.
Your kids will never know the dad you think you are.
Your kids will never know the dad your friends think you are.
Your kids will never know the dad you intended to be.
Your kids will know you as you are.
Be a good dad.
Here's a few thoughts I had as I was looking at Gryphyn and Vahn's pictures.
Your kids see you now.
They didn't see you grow up. They will see you as they grow up.
They didn't see you as a nerd or a jock. They will see if you treat them as a nerd or a jock.
They didn't see you go to school. They will come to you as they go through school.
They didn't see you romance their mom. They will look to you to learn romance.
They didn't see how your dad loved you. They will see how you love them.
Your kids will never know the dad you want to be.
Your kids will never know the dad you think you are.
Your kids will never know the dad your friends think you are.
Your kids will never know the dad you intended to be.
Your kids will know you as you are.
Be a good dad.
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